After seeing an ad in the newspaper on January 7th, 2000 we drove to Weldon, SK and adopted Brandy from a family whose last name was Haldane. She was the last puppy. She was born November 11th, 1999.
A dog for the millennium. She was my Christmas present that year. She's been a gift every year since.
Through our 14 years together she has taught me some valuable lessons that I will carry with me for the rest of my life.
Greet every loved one as if you haven't seen them in years. We should be excited for those in our lives and we never know how long they are really there. Everything can change quickly. Never let a day go by without telling a loved one you care.
Nothing counter height is yours. If you leave your drink unattended or drop food they belong to the dog. In fact, nothing on the counter may be yours either. That is especially true if it is slightly dangling over the edge of the counter or too close to the edge. Leaving a steak on an open barbecue is definitely an invitation. Always push the chair in to the table when you leave or you might be missing something off your plate when you return. Also, none of the blankets in the house are yours. They all belong to the dog who will promptly curl up on them and never give them up.
Embrace the change of the seasons. Stop and smell the flowers. Eat peas straight from the garden. Stomp in the autumn leaves. Plop your feet in the puddles. Feel the mud between your toes. Dash out the door on the first snow fall and frolic in the flakes.
Take time for yourself. Indulge in a spa day. Have your hair done. Get a message. Have a pedicure. Buy some new clothes. You will feel like a new dog.....er, person after.
Breakable Christmas ornaments have no business hanging on a tree. This is especially true if they are hanging down low because they will fall onto the floor and crash into a gazillion pieces. Some breakable ornaments may be hung at a higher level however, the tree may fall over at any time smashing them to smithereens.
Go for car rides. Travel. See the world. Drive with the windows down and let your hair blow in the wind. Dip your toes in the water. Find a new spot and make it yours. Enjoy the sights. Smell the air. Be inquisitive. Escape.
Protect your turf. Keep an eye out on your neighbourhood. Keep watch. Make sure no one is sneaking around or messing with your stuff. Patrol your yard and make sure everything is as it should be.
Remember when it's garbage day. Always empty the garbage. Inevitably a dog will Houdini itself into the garbage under the sink and spread it through the house if you don't take care of the garbage in your life. This may promote the installation of child proof locks on said kitchen cabinet but a dog is always aware and one must ensure the door is always firmly closed.
Remember when it's garbage day. Always empty the garbage. Inevitably a dog will Houdini itself into the garbage under the sink and spread it through the house if you don't take care of the garbage in your life. This may promote the installation of child proof locks on said kitchen cabinet but a dog is always aware and one must ensure the door is always firmly closed.
Accidents happen. Sometimes you poop on the floor but there's no point being upset. Yes it's embarrassing but don't dwell on it. Clean up your mess and move on. No one else thinks about it anymore so why should you. Everyone makes mistakes.
Be loyal and love deeply.
Know when it's time to go.
My little Brandy~puppy the Super Dog was diagnosed with a form of lymphoma on December 27th, 2013 and after a short rebound she went to Puppy Dog Heaven on January 27th, 2014, where she was greeted by her friends, Gonzo, Gunther, Lucy, & her mortal enemy Squeak the Cat. She was The Mom's angel and The Dad's fur seal and will be greatly missed but forever in our hearts.
Mommy & Daddy love you baby puppy. More than you will ever know.
. . . and now her work is done. Beautifully written. I don't doubt that she will be there at your feet each time you practice one of these life lessons.
ReplyDeleteI feel so sad you have lost a dear friend and so happy you and she had each other.
ReplyDeleteSuch wise words taught by a wonderful girl pup. I'm so glad you shared these thoughts. So glad you loved her so well, so deeply.
ReplyDeleteWhat a lovely memorial. Love love love Brandy, and love you, too. *hug * Beautifully said, my friend.
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